Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Letting Go...

I have been recently thinking a lot about "letting go". This doesn’t mean I'm sad or depressed. "Letting go" can be about different things. Letting go of things or people is the hardest thing to do and requires a lot of courage. "Letting go" of a relationship would mean a lot especially when you are in love with that person and you need to give up to make that person happy. 

Is it a easy thing to do? Does it ever feel better? Does it ever stop hurting? A lot of people tell me that if I care and love that person, I should let them go. They will come back if it’s meant to me. I always felt we shouldn't give up on people especially people we care or love.  Maybe I am romantic at heart and believe in the old ways of romance of not giving up on people. 

But I also realised that not everybody thinks like me or is like me. Most of the people I meet these days are so practical and don't want to get emotionally involved in life. This scares me. Have people forgotten how not to give up on people or are they ruled by the life experiences they had with wrong set of people?

I just advise our generation not to give up on people we love or give up on something we love. It’s nice to be emotionally attached to someone and give people enough personal space at the same time. I promise myself that I will not let go of my love for writing and continue to find stuff to write for myself and for people who love reading my blogs.