Change.... A big word

Change is such a big word and everyone has a different way of looking at it. You must be wondering  why I am talking about change today. Someone asked me the other day that did I ever change from what I was 5 years ago. The first thing I was thinking is am I supposed to change.

I was under the impression is that people are supposed to like us the way we are is change really that important for our growth.  If I compare myself with what I was five years ago then yes I did change but the person who knows me now will not be able to know that unless I say it. The question is whether the change I see myself is good or bad but I feel it depends on how you looking at it.

Coming to how have I changed. Five years ago I was somebody who did not know how to live alone, far away from her family and her friends,out of her comfort zone. l know for someone who is from this generation it's a common thing but for me it's a huge step because of which I have changed to become a more confident person who can handle herself  in good and bad situations but underneath all these changes, I am still emotionally connected to my family, for me that's not a bad thing at all however for some who are not emotional may think that it is not a good thing. 

You might ask me here why should I care about what people think because these people are my friends, family and people who you have been close to, yes what they think matters to me because they are my people. They are my support.

In the end what matters is not everyone is gonna be happy about your changes and do not have to agree with your changes. What matters is they love you for you are whether you changed or not.